What do I really want? This question is a hard one to reply, even for me. It took me a lot of effort to find it out. The answer for me is: I want to be alive and not only living my life. I don’t want to look back later on and think: “If I had done…” And only after I discovered my WHY, I started to be successful.
This answer does not yet give you insight into my WHY, does it? I want to help people to reach their full potential, in every possible way. Why? It makes me dance and smile all day when I can help people to make their next step and help them realise there is always a way out. To help them get insight into their behaviour and discover how they can change it so they can reach their full potential. To help them to find out their wishes and desires and set up a plan to fulfil them. I can’t help it, I love it and never get tired of it!
A friend once told me: “talking to you about what’s going on in my life, is never an easy going conversation. You always start asking questions that really matter.” Yes, I am a great listener, and I can see or feel quite quickly what is going on in some else’s life. And yes, I like those talks that really matter and that help you to go forward. I cannot get enough of them. That must be the reason why I am here. I am here to help you.
And why do I help you in your application process or in building your own business? Since I can remember, I have this big interest and fascination about the WHY of people’s occupation and behaviour. I have discovered that what really thrives you makes you successful, helps to fulfil yourself and makes you a great employee or a great business owner. An employer does not want someone who is dragging herself out of bed to some occupation that drains her energy and leaves her upset and confused. Your boss wants you to have resilience! Resilience goes together with happiness if you ask me. I believe you have something special to offer and I love helping you to discover what this special thing is. That is what makes me happy!
I am a big believer in own responsibility. I think it is up to you to discover this special thing you have to offer and it is in your hands to make it flourish. Find the power to blossom, to bloom and be happy!
Do you want to know how you can take matters into your own hands?
Start by answering this question:
“What do I really want?”
Don’t you know how? Dare to dream.
Take ten minutes right now to think and answer the question.
Let yourself discover.
And if you don’t know the answer, start paying attention to what questions do come up.
Are those questions your biggest fears?
Make them visible so you can tear them down and realise that walls aren’t for you anymore!